Transcendence

A friend of mine recently asked me to list three things which have helped me cope with my frustrations with the cultural differences I experience as an expat(expatriate).
The one I mentioned which she loved(she's also an expat--she lives in Argentina), was attending weddings.
Weddings are special in general. It is a reminder of what's important and to appreciate the good in our relationships(at least for me). But, here in Israel a wedding takes on a whole new dimension. What prompted me to write and share this, is that I felt that her description--transcendent, of my example--weddings and how they help me cope... that word just simply summed up my reasoning behind my example! She hit the bulls eye!
Life here in Israel is complex to say the least. On a regular day, with no exceptional circumstances, there are cultural differences to deal with. Some things I have found that I have acclimated to, and others to which I may never become accustomed.
A wedding though, by it's joyous nature, provides a perfect island of opportunity for escaping the differences. In joining together, as parents, friends, community members to simply enjoy the start of a new, young family with all the promise and potential for dreams yet not attained, we are united in transcending the complexities and challenges which tend to separate.
There is dancing, singing, pictures and the joy of an atmosphere beyond borders and politics.
Additionally, and certainly, the holiness of the air allows us to at least feel as though we are able to transcend time itself.
Please write and share your stories or other things which have helped you to connect to your Jewishness.